I guess for me when I think about what kind of Lifestyle I want to live it is certainly complicated. When you set out on this life journey you never think it won't work out the way you hoped and planned. Unfortunately life can go that way and your sent down a different road. I spent years married to the wrong person not living the life I deserved. Not walking beside someone but behind them. Then one day I chose me. In 2020 I changed my last name back to my maiden name and that was a big step towards change.

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I spent so much of my time doing things I thought I should be doing. Then one day I woke up and it was like I was finally free. Now I want to travel, go out and try new things, get a tattoo or two, meet new people, listen to music, dance, sing and mostly I want to smile. And maybe even be a little wild! I want to be spontaneous and jump on a plane for a weekend getaway. I want other women to look up to me. I want to walk into a room and for everyone in there to turn there head and want to meet me. I want people that meet me to smile and think that girl has her shit together, or at least kinda together. I want to be alive and live my best life because I have time. Shit, I guess I want a lot LOL. Some day, not anytime soon I may even find a man to settle down again with. The problem is being single after a toxic relationship has been the most amazing experience and just not sure I can give that up quite yet!  

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